SOME KID'S PARENTS

So I didn't post yesterday because I was super busy. Me and Sofeya went on the MS walk oh boy was that exhausting, 3.2 miles! Then afterwards we had to trick my sister going somewhere with me because we were throwing her a surprise cookout, it was really fun and the food was amazing, definitely stuffed my face! We waited around all day waiting on my bed to get to my house that my uncle was supposed to bring to me, that never happened, it was excuse after excuse pretty much giving us the run around, some people are just plain ridiculous! You know if your just honest with me and tell me the trust I'm more than likely going to understand and have more respect for you then if you sit there and purposely lie to me, because when i find out i was told lies ill lose all respect for you and be really pissed. Well the bad afternoon turned into a pretty good night, Sofeya and myself went over to Marcus'. We spent the night of course sofeya had a great night she always does when she gets to spend time with him and they play. When Sofeya went to bed we put her pack n play in his room so we could watch movies and hang out and not bother her and she stayed in there the whole night! We fell asleep on the couch, and the purpose of going over there was so there would be a bed to sleep in ha ha. 


Today we woke up and just kinda hung out around Marcus' apartment, then we got ready came back into Appleton (he lives in freedom), payed my rent for the month of may, went to Stevie B's because it is oh so good! YUMM! and it is very reasonably cheap. Sofeya had her first black olive today and by the look on her face she wasn't sure what to think of it, and of course she stored it in her cheek. Sofeya stores food in her cheeks when you put it in her mouth and chews on it every once and a while, i think she does that to savor the taste. We ran into my parents three times today while driving i thought it was quite hilarious! When we got home i got a phone call, guess what it was? MY BED WAS ON ITS WAY!! I was so excited! So after all was said and done things finally came into place thank goodness, i got sick of waking up on the floor because of the hole in my air mattress. OOH and one last thought before i head to bed, I read on facebook by some girl, her baby has to be only about 3 months old, and guess what her post said? she was going to make her baby a facebook...WTF IS UP WITH THAT!! I commented of course, I mean why in the hell would you make your 3 month old baby a facebook? There are so many creeps and pedophiles out there, would you really want to subject your child to that? My opinion i think a facebook is absolutely ridiculous for a child under the age of 15,(high school age). I know its my opinion and my thought process and it may not be what other people think but i think its ridiculous. I don't want to be strict on sofeya to the point where she rebels against me but i do want to protect her from the evils in this world as best as I can and if that means putting some strict guidelines on her then that is what I'm going to do. OK everyone thanks for reading! see ya tomorrow! 

Routine

So I'm awake and do not want to be, I'm tired but miss sofeya loves to be up this early everyday, but she goes down for a nap around 11 which is nice so i can catch a little bit of Zs. I feel as if I'm on a routine, its the same day after day. Wake up, change and feed sofeya, take a shower, get ready for the day. The one thing to me that never gets old or feels like routine is when sofeya sees me in the morning, she has the biggest smile and it makes my heart melt. So here's the game plan for today!

1.)Get ready for the day of course :)

2.)Take my sister to my parents house

3.)Do laundry

4.)lunch and nap time for miss sofeya and myself

5.)Sofeya and I hanging out with Grandma and Grandpa (my parents)

6.)Have friends over for the night YAY!!

7.)Go to bed and get refreshed for the big MS walk tomorrow and seeing Marcus because me and miss sofeya have missed him so much!

You know i enjoy being a mom everyday, i love my daughter so much and i don't regret bringing her into the world ever. Everyday i thank God for giving me her, she has taught me a lot and because of her i am a better person. I just hope that i can raise her to be the best person she can be. I cant wait to teach her new things, teach her wrong from right, and just always be there for her through thick and thin. God has given me the best gift, A CHILD! So yes my life right now is routine and it gets exhausting and tiring but seeing and being with Sofeya everyday life couldn't get much better than this.

NEW TO BLOGGING

So i am new to this whole blogging thing, but it has striked my interest so that is why i am starting. My main goal on my blog is to talk about and "journal" the day to day life of being a single mother, the struggles, the ups the downs, the hardships, the love, i might even dabble into the financial aspect which of course is not easy, not one bit. I am what you call a "single" mother because i am not married to the father of my child, but i do have a boyfriend, so i dont really like to think im a "single" mother, even though the definition says so. I will also talk about my life as a woman. I am basically using a blog in place of a personal journal that is hand written, so if i get off of "topic" please excuse me. So i hope all you enjoy reading! I hope to hear from all of you! Have a great day!